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失恋对于很多执着于爱情的人来说,像是一个晴天霹雳一样,所以,没有人愿意平白无故的失恋,就像没有人想莫名其妙的被雷击一样,但失恋很多时候却不以我们哪方的意志为转移的。也许我们在恋爱的时候就曾想过失恋这个问题,但是当它真正逼近的时候我们才发现失恋的苦楚比我们想象的还要强烈,以至于我们不愿意相信这个事实,甚至开始逃避,开始厌恨,开始暴躁,开始从一种极端走向另外一种极端。其实说来,失恋之所以让人痛苦,无非是我们放不下某种姿态,舍弃不了某种习惯,正视不了某种现实,做不到某种坚持而已。所以面对失恋,应该这么做。

 1.在一起是缘分,不在一起了是缘分已尽

 这不是欺骗,也不是纯粹的阿Q,只能说,这是走出失恋最好的自我安慰法。不管爱恨情仇,都在说出不爱的那一瞬间,一刀剪断,一去无踪。

 2.忘记该忘记的,记住该记住的,接受该接受,然后,改变能改变的

 不能说不好的就忘记,快乐的就记住,这样或许更痛苦,对于每个人来说,都应该是有选择的忘记和接受,能给你持续带来快乐的,那么你可以选择性的记住,对于只是给你痛苦的,一定要尽可能多的忘记;忘记不了和接受不了的事情,那就把它作为一种改变的动力,自然根生心中,不必勉强,不必有罪恶感。

 3.两个人时,善待对方,一个人时,善待自己

 如果这是一直做不到的,那就从现在开始努力做到,如果你已经做到善待对方,但还是免不了失恋的结局,那就好好的善待自己。等到再有那么一个可执子之手,与子偕老的人出现,你就可以在善待别人的同时善待自己了。

4.爱过,痛苦,才会金刚不坏

 有过失恋的苦涩,也许会让下次的爱情多些理性的等待和成熟的耕耘与浇灌,有过失恋的痛苦,也许会对爱情的珍视会真正的从内心深处生发出来。人只有经历过一次真正失恋的痛苦和折磨,克服挫折了才会开始成熟起来。爱的觉醒即自我的觉醒,世界的觉醒。对于弱者,以致真正的失恋经历足以摧毁一个世界;对于强者,则会获得一个世界。所以,不如把每次失恋都当做是你走向金刚不坏的祈福路吧。

 5.失恋了就不要再有牵扯的瓜葛

 女人有时候会贪恋男人的体温和保护,男人有时候会想念女人的柔情,但你适应不了一个人,就只会让自己更痛苦,让对方更痛苦。失恋了,不做朋友,不做肉体安慰者,要做就做最简单或者最熟悉的陌生人。

 6.失恋算什么让我们重头再来

 不要相信失恋会永远降临在你身上,除非你每次遇到的对象都是同一类型的人,每次失恋后你都不愿意改变那些不好的东西,否则,倒楣的事不会光找你一个人的。失恋不算什么,关键在于失恋了,我们还能不能振作起来,从头再来。

心理解读:所以,不要再问为什么。爱没有为什么,不爱同样没有为什么,爱和不爱都没有特别具体的原因来解释,你只管继续向前,继续追寻。

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