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惩罚孩子的7条原则

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中国的家长们常常为如何惩罚孩子而发愁,不妨来看看外国父母是如何惩罚孩子。国外有本名为《父亲手册》的书,具体阐释了惩罚的七条原则,值得广大家长们借鉴与参考。

孩子都会犯错,都有受家长惩罚的时候,如何使孩子在惩罚中进步、提高,不致因惩罚而使孩子心头积聚孤僻恨情绪,进而造成父子双方对立,这其中很有些技巧的。国外的《父亲手册》解释了惩罚孩子的七条原则。

一是犯错就要处罚

如果孩子生气时把一片玻璃打碎,虽非故意,你也要教育他这是他的过错。他虽然没有料想到自己行为的后果,但他仍要负赔偿之责。

二是要把你的要求对孩子讲清楚

假如你要求孩子做完家庭作业才准看电视,你就要对他讲得清清楚楚,让他记在心上。如果你发现孩子不做功课而先看电视,你就罚他几天之内不准看电视。你先要定下你的要求,他犯了再惩罚,不可不教而罚。

三是在惩罚之前,先对孩子警告

一两次警告就会让孩子警惕,他必须改正自己的行为,否则就会受到惩罚。

四是惩罚的开始与结果要明确

不要让家中一整天都充满了怨愤气息。惩罚完毕,一切便算过去。

五是犯错误之后,立即惩罚

妈妈常对孩子说的那句“爸爸回家后就有你瞧的啦!”的口头禅,并不适合实际情形。尤其是对孩子来说,这就更坏。因为小孩子没什么时间观念,等到他被惩罚时,他早忘了惩罚的原因了。大一点的孩子如犯了重大错误也需要立刻处罚。母亲如果能立刻把父亲叫回家来,父亲在当场惩罚要比等他下班回家来再惩罚有效。

六是在惩罚前,一定要向孩子解释一遍惩罚的原因

否则孩子不懂他们为什么受罚。

七是要言出必行

假如你警告过孩子当他犯某一种过错时要惩罚他,那么在他犯错后,你就一定要实行你惩罚的诺言。假如你不处罚,你以后便难以下达命令,你的惩罚也就失去了恫吓作用。

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